A death of a close friend, and spiritual support has a strong impact on my attending to my life. I hope to develop a stronger system ability to tend to life during unexpected traumatic events. I must say though, that I have recovered more quickly with this way of life.. It gives me a focus of what to do. I just went through my list of tending to my basic maintenance of body, mind, spirit, relations..this has helped me know how to get back to my life. I consider this proof for me that this way is going to work for me.